Domestic Discipline Forum

I hope she is capable of validating your experience also. It sounds like you both could have communicated better. She is in charge and a punishment for your extreme outburst was appropriate but it’s also critical that she validate your experience. I know very well the dangers of invalidation. Accord...

Nice to have you. I hope you have a positive experience interacting with members.

I read the rules. Sweetie I think your nervousness is misplaced. You are very polite and thoughtful always. I don’t think any of your posts or comments would ever get you in trouble. All anyone has to do to be in compliance is not be a jerk. Or a pervert. I’m pretty sure.

Not feeling like reading rules. No one engages with me here any more. I don’t feel welcome.

Yes I do but that’s ok. It took me a while to figure everything out when I first joined the forum.

I’ve been there with wanting to have it very much and begging my husband to try it and being so excited when he finally agreed. I hope it goes well and your husband gets comfortable with it. My advice, though of course disregard it if you feel it doesn’t help, is to take full responsibility for bein...

In my opinion this life style requires complete, uncoerced consent. If she does not want it, it’s not right for you to try to sneak her into it. I think the right thing would be to tell her this is something that’s important to you and then ask her to study it with you and ask her if she’ll agree to...

I think communicating your opinion would be important.

Welcome to the forum! I hope you find it helpful. So which of you is the Hoh? I’m sorry I didn’t quite follow. It’s great that you helped your fiancé grow up a little and reach more of his potential.

The first sign of maturing is being aware that you have things to work on so you should feel good about that. Some wives are difficult and have no clue that they are and if their husband tells them they are they deny it! You’re miles above that kind of blindness.