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by CassLynn
Thu Oct 11, 2018 9:24 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Ugh hurricane Michael
Replies: 16
Views: 376

Re: Ugh hurricane Michael

Oh my. Is saying when it rains it pours too punny for this serious situation? I’m so glad you have faith to help you cope. Being trained by the gospel to stay grateful when you feel like you’re getting hit from all sides is a great blessing.
by CassLynn
Wed Oct 10, 2018 12:42 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: HoH Series: Being The Leader
Replies: 2
Views: 120

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: HoH Series: Being The Leader

Good post Clint. I like your emphasis on kindness and positivity as ways for a leader to interact in the home. At college I studied management types and the proven most effective is a kind manager who leads by example, inspiring compliance. Coercion and denigration are more popular styles but way le...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 10:22 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Husband is on board!
Replies: 13
Views: 612

Re: Husband is on board!

I’m so glad to hear that it helped you! Great job being patient and being willing to keep being patient.
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:17 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Husband is on board!
Replies: 13
Views: 612

Re: Husband is on board!

Wow. What he suspects you of is really horrible and, as you said, makes no sense. But I recognize it. My husbands ex was a nasty person who used tears and emotion to manipulate and if she apologized it was always sarcastic. He often is convinced that I’m being insincere or manipulative. I am a total...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:06 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Still deliberating....
Replies: 11
Views: 467

Re: Still deliberating....

In the beginning I questioned if I was crazy too. A lot. But I finally got over that. I’ve never regretted doing it. It’s brought almost all positive things and very little negative. Unless you count right during a punishment. I worried a lot about asking my husband to take on the big responsibility...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 08, 2018 12:28 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings
Replies: 24
Views: 5346

Re: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings

I have no idea who came up with the idea or term for maintenance. It could seem anywhere from odd to illogical to cruel and it’s something, not unlike DD, that you either get it or you don’t and explanations may not help. I do know that most submissives I’ve heard of either really want or at least r...
by CassLynn
Sun Oct 07, 2018 10:19 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Advice please
Replies: 15
Views: 441

Re: Advice please

I’d like to reiterate what Lauren said. Punishments can be MUCH tamer if it’s right for you. We were doing intense spankings for fun before we started DD so for us punishment has to be pretty hard core. And I like it that way. If you’re totally new to spanking you should start out very mild. If you’...
by CassLynn
Sat Oct 06, 2018 9:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings
Replies: 24
Views: 5346

Re: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings

My point of view: submission is biblical, a husband punishing his wife is not mentioned. We use DD because it improves our marriage not because we think God wants us to. Both punishment and maintenance spankings help our relationship and me personally, so we use them both. I feel strongly that if a ...
by CassLynn
Mon Oct 01, 2018 11:23 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Just beginning the journey
Replies: 9
Views: 305

Re: Just beginning the journey

Welcome and good luck
by CassLynn
Thu Sep 27, 2018 8:11 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: She just isn’t getting it.
Replies: 4
Views: 325

Re: She just isn’t getting it.

It takes a long time to grasp and accept and embrace and then learn to perform consistently (stop old habits, make new ones) for submission and respect and putting someone else’s needs first. More than five months. That’s how long we’re into it too. I’m still very much a work in progress. Your consi...