Domestic Discipline Forum

Oldfashionedwife, I was curious how things have been going since your last post? I do understand that many husbands have some reluctance in doing corporal punishment and are afraid of going to far. I think most of would feel that somewhat. But really, it's a learning process and you both will have t...

Welcome, glad you joined us.

Nate

hello and welcome!

Clint did have a few blog pieces on how to give a lecture. I'm not sure if it is still available. You may have to tell your husband very specifically what you are looking for in DD and why. Many are still a bit unsure exactly how much discipline/ control/ etc. that you need and expect. In this examp...

I think part of any reluctance or worry about DD is cultural... both from feminist teachings that show men in a bad light and of course from real domestic abuse. Although that goes both ways.

That is good. Nice having support.

Nate

Welcome,

Yes, it is sometimes hard to be consistent. But I find that many woman feel as you do when things get slack. Our marriage is better and we are happier when actively engaged in DD. Keep talking to him.

Nate

As a personal friend of Goldilocks, I know the situation and I know her friend. To me the smirk, chuckle was an indication of her acceptance of her friend's DD marriage. Instead of questioning or making comments, the smirk/ chuckle was a way of putting a very embarrassed Goldilocks at ease. :) I ag...

I would be sure she wasn't instigating things, but it sounds like she wasn't to me. And if part of the reason you were spanked was the remarks you made or the way you were acting up around her, then I don't blame her for giving a little chuckle of satisfaction. It is embarrassing, yes, but I think y...