Domestic Discipline Forum

Welcome!

Hope you will write often. I agree on not having a safeword. It shouldn't be needed in DD.

Nate

Haven't used restraints either, although I know some who do and for good reasons. It can be fun on one level, but sometimes the person being spanked feels more secure and comfortable with them. Others like mentioned here, want to challenge themselves to hold position. Either way is good. Whatever wo...

DisciplinedWife, I'm sure you were smart enough not to marry someone who would turn into an abuser in the first place. You appear to be a very religious woman, and I would assume your husband is also therefore? I can't imagine him asking something too outlandish to be Contradictory to Gods Word. Rig...

Just to chime in. I never liked anyone around me "ripping one". Never thought it was funny...definitely don't want to be in the area afterwards. I know it's a normal function..fine....be discreet about it or go somewhere alone. Why should we have to be around you while you stink up the area? Where i...

Disciplinedwife, I disagree with those who say it was "illegal" or nonconsensual. Most true spankings, for punishment are not necessarily desired or wanted. You knew your husband believed in that a husband has a right to spank his wife. I agree with that. So do you evidently. I would have handled it...

Lauren wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 17, 2019 1:34 pm

Every spanking is done bare bottom in our house.

I believe they all should be that way too.

Depending on the rule break, I often feel it is pointless after a couple of days also. Things have a much greater effect if taken care of as soon as possible.

Nate

SpankedWife, I agree with a lot of what's been said. You probably have been suffering a type of depression due to grief and acting out in whatever way you can. Talk to your husband and tell him that you think this is the reason for your rebellion and ask for some understanding. It really isn't an ex...

Thank you Miras and Kerry!

Lol, Thank you Lauren! It is unusual. It just forces me to officially recognize that I'm getting older. It's something nice that Carol and I can share one day a year.

Nate