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by cowboy
Sat Mar 31, 2018 11:47 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?
Replies: 86
Views: 38153

Re: How Does HOH Deal With A Smart Mouth/Attitude?

My former Dominant dealt with this type of misbehavior the same as for lies and foul language. I was stripped and brought to the sink and forced to my knees with wrists bound behind my back. Actually placing a bar of soap in ones mouth is dangerous if it is swallowed. Thus she would completely lathe...
by cowboy
Thu Mar 22, 2018 10:46 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Stress Relief Spankings
Replies: 19
Views: 7183

Re: Stress Relief Spankings

I can give you the differences in our relationship.... Discipline spankings are meant to hurt and be effective in changing your behavior. Maintenance spankings are meant to remind a sub of their role and what's in store for misbehavior. Here, they are administered with a warm up, a safe word is opti...
by cowboy
Wed Mar 21, 2018 11:06 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Stress Relief Spankings
Replies: 19
Views: 7183

Re: Stress Relief Spankings

Let me chime in too. When I was still working, stress relief spankings were used. It is funny, she just knew when I needed one. At times, just before I was preparing for work, she would administer a good stress relief spanking and I would go off with a much better mindset. Stress relief spankings do...
by cowboy
Tue Mar 13, 2018 11:50 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Chores/Rules
Replies: 13
Views: 9169

Re: Chores/Rules

Chores really seem to be my big down fall. And I don't have a lot so there really is no reason. I have a few small things assigned for certain days and usually 1 bigger project that is suppose to be done by 6 pm Saturday evening. I am really bad about thinking I have plenty of time. Usually during ...
by cowboy
Fri Mar 09, 2018 12:11 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Humiliation - is there a role?
Replies: 7
Views: 5431

Re: Humiliation - is there a role?

Humiliation does have a role in DD relationship and most likely other relationships as well. I think Carlie and Ddjennifer have hit the nail on the head. Humiliation is different for different people. What may be humiliating for one is not humiliating for another. In order for a Dominant or HoH to u...
by cowboy
Mon Jan 29, 2018 10:34 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Non Spanking Punishments ?
Replies: 5
Views: 3162

Re: Non Spanking Punishments ?

In our relationship we do not use any non-spanking forms of discipline. My former Dominant would mouth soap me and use humiliation in addition to a good spanking, but my current Dominant does not. There is nothing wrong with non-spanking punishments and there are most likely many who find their use ...
by cowboy
Sun Jan 21, 2018 4:51 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings
Replies: 24
Views: 16386

Re: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings

Warm ups are most often hand spanking. Beginning with light smacks and gradually build up to more meaningful smacks as the skin warms up. There are times when and implement is used, but still begins with light strokes for a few minutes.
by cowboy
Sat Jan 20, 2018 11:36 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings
Replies: 24
Views: 16386

Re: Physical difference of punishment vs maintenance spankings

Good points Willow. Maintenance spankings and punishment spankings do differ. Ours are different in three ways. Punishment spankings have no warm up, no safe word and no after care while maintenance have all three.
by cowboy
Sat Jan 20, 2018 11:09 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: New the group but not DD
Replies: 5
Views: 1286

Re: New the group but not DD

Right Joshua, submission is actually a state of mind and it is not for everyone.
by cowboy
Sun Jan 07, 2018 10:42 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: New DD Wife
Replies: 46
Views: 8283

Re: New DD Wife

Good information transfer there. I do agree that for me the knowledge that I have displeased my Dominant hurst more than the physical spanking. Yes, for sure, discuss things with him about your needs and likes, etc, but not during a spanking. Find a time to discuss things and it will not be consider...