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by Tessa
Sat Jan 09, 2021 6:31 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

The letter was not well-received. He’s just not interested. I’m feeling pretty down - I think maybe he’s not really all that interested in me anymore, either.
by Tessa
Wed Jan 06, 2021 1:00 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

Go for it!! Ok, but please give me suggestions for changes. I bought us something. Me something. Still sort of us something. And I really don’t know how you’re going to feel about it. I’d like you to really listen to me, before you completely negate everything I’m saying, ok? And I’m sorry I can’t ...
by Tessa
Wed Jan 06, 2021 10:13 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

The delivery should be here tomorrow. I’ve been working on what I want to say to him, and maybe I’m taking the coward’s way out, but I think I want to write a letter. Would it be ok to post that here and get some opinions of folks a lot
more experienced than I am?
by Tessa
Tue Jan 05, 2021 4:15 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: What does the wife think after a Spanking?
Replies: 13
Views: 4741

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: What does the wife think after a Spanking?

I am stuck in the "Man does that hurt" mindset...My husband thinks spankings should be fast and hard...no lecturing, no warm up...Even though I know it's supposed to hurt, it's kind of a shock to my brain and I spend the whole time trying to escape it rather than accept it...I don't get to actually...
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 6:55 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

Hi Tessa, You could just try handing him the Lexan paddle after it arrives. Then while he is still looking a bit stunned or lost, you can open up about how you feel regarding DD and your guilt etc. It is not unusual at all. He needs to know and understand how much you want this and that it will mak...
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 4:05 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi, I’m Maria
Replies: 16
Views: 1021

Re: Hi, I’m Maria

Hi Maria!
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:30 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

Still don’t know how to edit - I meant, “even just those first two or three”. They were so hard and so fast....
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:28 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

Hi Tessa My bottom has always been quite tough and can take a fair bit of spanking and I have had some hard ones like you too but haven't really had a proper discipline spanking that doesn't stop when I ask but when whoever is disciplining me has decided that it's sufficient. Maybe you could talk t...
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 6:15 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from SC!
Replies: 32
Views: 1671

Re: Hi from SC!

Ok, a little (maybe a lot) about me. I’ve been married for 31 years. I’m 54, hubby is 65. We’ve played with erotic spankings (some quite hard) since the beginning of our marriage. About ten years in, I started exploring DD, and approached hubby and wanted to try it. He was NOT on board at all; howev...
by Tessa
Mon Jan 04, 2021 5:38 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 307
Views: 64668

Re: For all members!!

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