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by S.K.
Thu Dec 07, 2017 10:39 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from Memphis!
Replies: 12
Views: 1927

Re: Hi from Memephis!

Welcome! I agree with the above statement that if it’s done right and out of love there shouldn’t be any self deprecation. anxiety verys by the person, but if the rules have been agreed on, it’s not an attack on her person, only a means to help her be better.
by S.K.
Thu Dec 07, 2017 10:34 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello from Dallas Fort Worth
Replies: 4
Views: 918

Re: Hello from Dallas Fort Worth

Glad to have you.
by S.K.
Sat Dec 02, 2017 12:37 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: New punishment
Replies: 41
Views: 19147

Re: New punishment

You ALWAYS have a choice and the ability to say no. If you are uncomfortable or truly unhappy at anytime you have the right/obligation to say so. I’m not sure how y’all do things but our DD is only about loving discipline. Not BDSM. If he has needs, outside of your agreement then he should say so, a...
by S.K.
Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:46 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 56
Views: 27572

Re: How do you spank?

Both but I meant his hand so I offered the paddle after he broke my brush. He likes this paddle. But I’m in trouble so not sure what his idea is. I’ve never really been in trouble but he is seriously hurt and I feel bad That’s the worst. I’d rather be beat than to feel that I’ve hurt my hubby. On t...
by S.K.
Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:34 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 56
Views: 27572

Re: How do you spank?

Kerry wrote:
Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:32 pm
He used his hand the first time and it bruised and he broke my Aveda brush so ever since it’s a leather paddle. Not sure what is on his mind today
His hand bruised or your bottom did?
by S.K.
Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:33 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 56
Views: 27572

Re: How do you spank?

My usual is a wooden hairbrush OTK. I guess I have a high pain tolerance and no matter how hard he hits his bare hand does not seem to phase me much. With the brush there have been times I have a hard time remaining in position no matter how much I try. His leg over mine helps quite a bit in those ...
by S.K.
Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:14 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi
Replies: 12
Views: 1887

Re: Hi

We don’t use corner time. HOH sees it as too childish.
I don’t suppose I have anything against it but then again, it’s never happened so I wouldn’t know how it would make me feel.
by S.K.
Thu Nov 30, 2017 10:08 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 56
Views: 27572

How do you spank?

How do you spank and why? My HOH only uses his hand and OTK. Somehow he manages to make his hand feel like a brick coming down though.. He’s used a wood brush maybe twice, but it got thrown out long ago during a short period where we strayed away from DD for a bit. He’s threatened the belt but I’ve ...
by S.K.
Wed Nov 29, 2017 2:57 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi
Replies: 12
Views: 1887

Re: Hi

Nice to have you both. We've been up and down in this lifestyle as well, and seem to finally be settling into our own. So happy this forum has become the little community that is has, looking forward to hearing more from you both!
by S.K.
Wed Nov 29, 2017 2:36 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello from Colorado!
Replies: 10
Views: 1760

Re: Hello from Colorado!

Welcome, glad to have you!