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by Tabitha
Sat Sep 15, 2018 1:19 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Tabitha, I just wondered if there is a limit on the Time Out's. Are you able to do it multiple times? Or once a year or how does that work? thanks, Nate No limit, Nate. I don't suppose we envisaged having to use it at all, and probably reckoned that once would be enough to sort out any issues. My h...
by Tabitha
Sat Sep 15, 2018 7:34 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

I have been reading and following this thread for some time now and I have to say, Tabitha, your husband IS using excessive force. I know you don't think that and that is great but for the first time caution should have been used. Not preparing the butt for the cane can leave damaged, broken skin, ...
by Tabitha
Fri Sep 14, 2018 10:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

I 💯% agree with y’all!! I am not a fan of your husband at all!! He is WAY out of line and I’m glad you used the “tine out” and hopefully during that time he will realize where he is doing wrong!! FFF👩🏻‍🚒 Thank you, FFF. But he believes I need a stricter regime of discipline and punishment. Since Ju...
by Tabitha
Fri Sep 14, 2018 8:33 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

My husband ran the damp bar of soap over my tongue and against my front teeth, so a very unpleasant coating developed. He knew I found the taste horrible, but he added to my discomfort by placing the bar gently in my mouth and told me to lean my head forward to avoid swallowing any of it during the ...
by Tabitha
Thu Sep 13, 2018 2:08 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

One further point my husband made: while the caning was severe, he didn't think it excessive. The six strokes were delivered in less than five minutes.
by Tabitha
Thu Sep 13, 2018 1:37 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

So, my husband's work project (that took him away the day after he caned me) was extended. He returned home early today and we spoke at length. Before we spoke, he said he'd have to punish me for adopting a disrespectful tone to him on the telephone when he was away. So, for the first time ever he s...
by Tabitha
Thu Sep 13, 2018 12:46 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Tabitha, I haven't been on here more than just to check messages in about 4 days. I've been working, doing wine tastings, church meetings and TRYING to get prepared for Hurricane Florence. It's an exhausting, expensive endeavor. Four days of being gone 12 to 15 hours each day, I was too tired to ge...
by Tabitha
Mon Sep 10, 2018 8:13 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

Tabitha, I am smiling.. ..hope you are too by now. Did you get a chance to talk to him about the punishment and tell him how you felt? I'm anxious to know what came of it. I would say that I would not have walked away and left you there. I do strongly believe in the aftercare ..hugs and consoling. ...
by Tabitha
Sat Sep 08, 2018 12:37 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

I am familiar with that caning style. At least I have read of it in some sort of book or article. I have never used it. But it seems plausible to do. It is a reinforcing blow. A final.."one to grow on" and remember strike that is extra painful and lasting because it goes over the previous cuts. But...
by Tabitha
Thu Sep 06, 2018 2:35 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: My First Caning - painful beyond belief
Replies: 55
Views: 4656

Re: My First Caning - painful beyond belief

. Maybe it is not the cane itself, but the power your husband used to cane you. He has the right to choose the type of punishment you need. But you have the right to disagree with something you are not comfortable with. Yes, the strength of the strokes he delivered made it worse. Thanks for your fe...