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I don't quite know what is going on with my behaviour- but to say I've taken a complete nose dive is the understatement of the century. I just feel like a lousy wife right now, but I can't seem to snap out of this 'Can't be bothered' attitude. I used to take pride in keeping our home clean and tidy...

Olivia wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 02, 2020 11:56 am

This makes sense to me and my husband has helped get me out of a rut or two...I can't speak to what will work for you...- but my husband will spank me until he's certain I've turned a corner but not as hard as he does when he's punishing me- best wishes!

Thanks Olivia

I don't quite know what is going on with my behaviour- but to say I've taken a complete nose dive is the understatement of the century. I just feel like a lousy wife right now, but I can't seem to snap out of this 'Can't be bothered' attitude. I used to take pride in keeping our home clean and tidy...

It’s hard to ask for sure! I totally understand. I’m working with him slowly on entering this lifestyle and want and need and crave it so badly. I wonder if implementing weekly maintenance spankings for you guys would be helpful for a month or so, just to see if you have a change. Yes, I completely...

I do know that after we've talked properly later, I will get a spanking, I know I need this, I can't go on the way I'm going. But I'm dreading it.
But, if this is going to help us, then I guess It will be worth it

I would say yes. We’ve just restarted our DD journey and having to be held accountable and be more respectful to my HOH has helped. A work in progress as it always is. Good luck. Be brave and ask for one. Thankyou! both of your responses have given me some hope that things can change, I really hone...

VernAKmiss wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 02, 2020 4:40 am

I would say yes, it sounds like it would be highly beneficial to you and your marriage. Have you expressed any of this to your husband yet??

Thankyou! Yes I opened up about how I was feeling and he completely agrees, we are sitting down together later and going through areas we need to address.

I don't quite know what is going on with my behaviour- but to say I've taken a complete nose dive is the understatement of the century. I just feel like a lousy wife right now, but I can't seem to snap out of this 'Can't be bothered' attitude. I used to take pride in keeping our home clean and tidy,...

Welcome

Hi Lesley, and welcome
Yes, It's definitely completely normal to feel apprehension about the spanking.