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I get it bare bottom with his hand. Every. Single. Time. No option, changes, or free passes.

It burns and turns my bottom red. It is not pleasant. Oh and don't try to wash it off! Water makes it worse.

Dave uses Capsaicin cream.

Oh dear. I'm so sorry for your poor bottom. I've heard that the belt is awful. Hope you feel better and things got sorted out. Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.

Still trying to conquer this problem too. I used to get the belt and a small eternity in the corner. Usually cures it for about a week before I slip up again.

Many times it isn't what we say that causes a problem, it is the way in which we say it that makes a situation worse. Would your HOH be okay with you saying, "I need some time to put my thoughts into words. May I come to you later when I can speak coherently and kindly?" Great suggestion! I mention...

You guys gave me lots to consider. We are going to have a discussion soon and make a plan. Brian is going to make a final rule by the end of the week after we talk everything through.

I bruise very easily. And am a bleeder. It's not his fault as much as it is my fair, thin skin. So he always spanks me over clothes first for long time, then pulls my clothes down to check my bottom. Then at the end, he does as many swats as he wants on my bare bottom as long as I'm only showing re...