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by DisciplinedWife
Fri Sep 17, 2021 1:51 am
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 24
Views: 3247

Re: What are your political views?

I am Christian in my private life and liberal i.e. freedom lover in public. I believe the State should impose minimum restrictions and be an enabler by providing basic necessities like nutritious food, education and health to all. Taking care of people is being Christian and an welfare state helps e...
by DisciplinedWife
Thu Sep 16, 2021 12:43 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Count swats or count time? Newbie here!
Replies: 5
Views: 1720

Re: Count swats or count time? Newbie here!

Every DD couple has their own discipline dynamics. Counting seats or time can be too mechanistic while looking for subordinates' reaction can lead to excessive and disproportional punishment. We believe a spanking should be memorable, proportionate and immediate. We need to look at the need for disc...
by DisciplinedWife
Tue Sep 14, 2021 3:15 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking, clothing and humiliation
Replies: 47
Views: 42737

Re: Spanking, clothing and humiliation

Dear Nicole, I also expected that you would find the process of cutting switches for your punishment to be embarrassing. Probably that is also a part of the punishment. I would also commend you for not selecting weak switches even when you know they will be used to inflict pain on your bottom. Altho...
by DisciplinedWife
Wed Apr 28, 2021 2:00 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking, clothing and humiliation
Replies: 47
Views: 42737

Re: Spanking, clothing and humiliation

Any opinion regarding the use of switch vis-a-vis cane? The cane has become synonymous with our highly structured spankings and hence a change of implement may be beneficial for a new style of spanking. My husband has cut the switch and he has made me go out and cut switches. Hi Nic, Any specific s...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:41 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 17
Views: 10903

Use of restraints

Any couple here uses restraints during punishments? If restraints are used are they used for all or only some punishments? Does any body feel that the need to use restraints makes their submission less genuine? What type of restraints are used?
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:36 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 6108

Nature of Consent

In DD one or both partners give the other partner(s) the right to corporeally chastise them. However, one issue that arises is the nature of consent. Is the consent a blanket consent or are there conditions? If no conditions are mentioned, can some conditions be assumed? In my case, DD flows from my...
by DisciplinedWife
Sat Jan 18, 2020 7:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 4756

Re: Punished for Online Posts

Thanks for the answers. I have been punished multiple times for online posts. I have pretty strong political opinions, which is not a problem, and I have many-a-times lost my decorum in online political discussions, which is a problem. I have also sometimes waded unnecessarily in political discussio...
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 9:04 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 4756

Punished for Online Posts

Has anyone here been punished for their online posts? Will they be willing to discuss the same? How did the punishment change their online behaviour?
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 8:59 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears
Replies: 10
Views: 10263

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears

I think crying and tears are over-emphasised in DD. As mentioned before, I receive fixed number of strokes (2,4,6 or 12) for my misdemeanours. Thanks to my increased acquaintance with the cane over the years, even six strokes do not bring me to tears. So as per the recommendation of the blogger, I s...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Dec 23, 2019 9:14 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Post Spanking Dialog
Replies: 29
Views: 17098

Re: Post Spanking Dialog

When we started the DD routine, it was a requirement that I thank my HoH for every spanking. After 3 years, when he felt my behaviour had improved considerably, he removed the condition. But I do thank him after most spankings. The exceptions are the ones which I felt I did not deserve or the ones I...