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by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:41 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 17
Views: 5247

Use of restraints

Any couple here uses restraints during punishments? If restraints are used are they used for all or only some punishments? Does any body feel that the need to use restraints makes their submission less genuine? What type of restraints are used?
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:36 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 2772

Nature of Consent

In DD one or both partners give the other partner(s) the right to corporeally chastise them. However, one issue that arises is the nature of consent. Is the consent a blanket consent or are there conditions? If no conditions are mentioned, can some conditions be assumed? In my case, DD flows from my...
by DisciplinedWife
Sat Jan 18, 2020 7:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 2395

Re: Punished for Online Posts

Thanks for the answers. I have been punished multiple times for online posts. I have pretty strong political opinions, which is not a problem, and I have many-a-times lost my decorum in online political discussions, which is a problem. I have also sometimes waded unnecessarily in political discussio...
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 9:04 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 2395

Punished for Online Posts

Has anyone here been punished for their online posts? Will they be willing to discuss the same? How did the punishment change their online behaviour?
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 8:59 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears
Replies: 10
Views: 2873

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears

I think crying and tears are over-emphasised in DD. As mentioned before, I receive fixed number of strokes (2,4,6 or 12) for my misdemeanours. Thanks to my increased acquaintance with the cane over the years, even six strokes do not bring me to tears. So as per the recommendation of the blogger, I s...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 06, 2020 1:09 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?
Replies: 27
Views: 6876

Re: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?

I know that sometimes one feels the punishment is undeserved or too severe for the offence. I have felt that quite a few times. We have a very structured discipline arrangement with number of strokes pre-decided by offence levels and I am allowed to "appeal against the sentence" i.e. speak respectfu...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Dec 23, 2019 9:14 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Post Spanking Dialog
Replies: 29
Views: 9953

Re: Post Spanking Dialog

When we started the DD routine, it was a requirement that I thank my HoH for every spanking. After 3 years, when he felt my behaviour had improved considerably, he removed the condition. But I do thank him after most spankings. The exceptions are the ones which I felt I did not deserve or the ones I...
by DisciplinedWife
Sat Dec 21, 2019 11:33 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: For all members!!
Replies: 225
Views: 29833

Re: For all members!!

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by DisciplinedWife
Sat Dec 21, 2019 11:32 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking, clothing and humiliation
Replies: 39
Views: 16482

Re: Spanking, clothing and humiliation

I discussed this issue with my husband and also showed him the comments on this topic. He agreed to make the next spanking an unstructured one. I hope it doesn't come soon :D He has used only a cane. A few times he has talked about using a switch. He has agreed to get a switch ready before the next ...
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Dec 20, 2019 8:50 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: How do you spank?
Replies: 57
Views: 36119

Re: How do you spank?

Given that most responses are by spankees, I think the thread should be titled - How are you spanked? My spankings are highly structured. Unless one of us is out of town, my behaviour is reviewed every Friday. I have to mention my list of infractions, if any. He will add to that list anything that h...