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by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:41 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 17
Views: 2003

Use of restraints

Any couple here uses restraints during punishments? If restraints are used are they used for all or only some punishments? Does any body feel that the need to use restraints makes their submission less genuine? What type of restraints are used?
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:36 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Nature of Consent
Replies: 12
Views: 1128

Nature of Consent

In DD one or both partners give the other partner(s) the right to corporeally chastise them. However, one issue that arises is the nature of consent. Is the consent a blanket consent or are there conditions? If no conditions are mentioned, can some conditions be assumed? In my case, DD flows from my...
by DisciplinedWife
Sun Jan 19, 2020 1:03 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 46
Views: 2786

Re: Bra

Dear SassyCloud, Thanks for your wishes. I am in a relationship where I feel the HoH bears responsibility of making me a better person. Based on his posts, I also do not feel that Smoothy20 is fit to be a HoH. But the point where we probably differ is: 1- For good or bad, Smoothy20 is currently the ...
by DisciplinedWife
Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:50 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 46
Views: 2786

Re: Bra

Dear SassyClouds, I understand that you are going through a traumatic phase in your life. If you read my post completely, I condemned the behaviour of Smoothy20. The key points which you may feel problematic but which I believe strongly are: 1- My conceptualisation of DD is built on wedding vows and...
by DisciplinedWife
Sun Jan 19, 2020 2:00 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Bra
Replies: 46
Views: 2786

Re: Bra

The duty of a husband is to love, honor and cherish the wife. Forcing the wife to stop wearing a bra without ascribing any reasons when she feels that wearing one is part of her religion is not an example of honoring and cherishing. At the same time, the duty of a wife is to love, honor and obey the...
by DisciplinedWife
Sat Jan 18, 2020 7:39 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 1096

Re: Punished for Online Posts

Thanks for the answers. I have been punished multiple times for online posts. I have pretty strong political opinions, which is not a problem, and I have many-a-times lost my decorum in online political discussions, which is a problem. I have also sometimes waded unnecessarily in political discussio...
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 9:04 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Punished for Online Posts
Replies: 7
Views: 1096

Punished for Online Posts

Has anyone here been punished for their online posts? Will they be willing to discuss the same? How did the punishment change their online behaviour?
by DisciplinedWife
Fri Jan 10, 2020 8:59 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears
Replies: 10
Views: 1146

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: The Importance Of Crying and Tears

I think crying and tears are over-emphasised in DD. As mentioned before, I receive fixed number of strokes (2,4,6 or 12) for my misdemeanours. Thanks to my increased acquaintance with the cane over the years, even six strokes do not bring me to tears. So as per the recommendation of the blogger, I s...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Jan 06, 2020 1:09 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?
Replies: 27
Views: 3255

Re: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?

I know that sometimes one feels the punishment is undeserved or too severe for the offence. I have felt that quite a few times. We have a very structured discipline arrangement with number of strokes pre-decided by offence levels and I am allowed to "appeal against the sentence" i.e. speak respectfu...
by DisciplinedWife
Mon Dec 23, 2019 9:14 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Post Spanking Dialog
Replies: 28
Views: 6825

Re: Post Spanking Dialog

When we started the DD routine, it was a requirement that I thank my HoH for every spanking. After 3 years, when he felt my behaviour had improved considerably, he removed the condition. But I do thank him after most spankings. The exceptions are the ones which I felt I did not deserve or the ones I...