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by StrapHater
Thu Jan 02, 2020 4:30 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?
Replies: 27
Views: 9209

Re: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?

SpankedWife As a switch, I have to add a few words here. I agree with what Lauren posted in the comments above. In our relationship, trust and communication are paramount to a working DD relationship. We learned many years ago that a spanking without these critical elements is just an unemotional, ...
by StrapHater
Sun Dec 15, 2019 5:07 pm
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Depression
Replies: 24
Views: 4336

Re: Depression

Okay... I've debated for a while about posting in this thread. The discussion can be kinda "surfacey" (if I can invent a word) when it comes to depression... or it can be deeper. Not quite sure where to go with it... so I will start with our history. I have anxiety issues (obvious, right? **grin**) ...
by StrapHater
Mon Dec 02, 2019 9:28 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello All
Replies: 14
Views: 2188

Re: Hello All

Good to have you here, Olivia . There are a number of famous Olivias... some likeable, others not so much. Olivia Pope took total control every week on Scandal. Olivia Benson defends special victims every week on Law and Order: SVU. Olivia Walton from the Waltons takes me back to the late 70s. But t...
by StrapHater
Mon Dec 02, 2019 9:05 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from Dean
Replies: 8
Views: 1231

Re: Hi from Dean

You found a good group, Dean. Glad you're here.
by StrapHater
Sat Nov 30, 2019 11:15 pm
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from Jay
Replies: 7
Views: 2100

Re: Hi from Jay

Again, welcome, Jay. I do hope the two of you are able to work out a mutually beneficial DD relationship. While most people here seem to have a relationship where the hubby is the HOH, there are a few of us who rest in a non-standard FLR... or pseudo-FLR...
by StrapHater
Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:45 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Discipline OR Divorce!!!
Replies: 22
Views: 5696

Re: Discipline OR Divorce!!!

SpankedWife , there is a plethora of support and great advice on this forum... especially for those who might feel they are on an E Ticket emotional roller coaster. You have been through sooo much these last few months, but it looks like you've found the secret to a great DD relationship (or any re...
by StrapHater
Sat Nov 30, 2019 8:15 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Happy Thanksgiving
Replies: 9
Views: 1481

Re: Happy Thanksgiving

LMAO at Phil's post!! Hope everyone had a great weekend. I'm ecstatic 'cause the Tide lost!!
by StrapHater
Fri Nov 15, 2019 12:59 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hi from Jay
Replies: 7
Views: 2100

Re: Hi from Jay

Welcome, Jay!! My wife and I have a similar arrangement... although she admits to needing spanking from me, too. She has seven different implements she uses, but her favorite is the strap. You will find this an interesting group...
by StrapHater
Tue Nov 05, 2019 11:40 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Should we even try to still practice DD?
Replies: 27
Views: 7058

Re: Should we even try to still practice DD?

Lauren , I debated a long time on whether to respond or not. SE is my second marriage, and I am her third. We had extremely rough times the first several years of our marriage... with me being accustomed to living alone for more than a decade. Her three are married and gone. My one is on a fantasti...
by StrapHater
Sat Nov 02, 2019 3:11 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Blog temporarily deactivated
Replies: 28
Views: 8622

Re: Blog temporarily deactivated

Rand E, I have found the best Spencer information on the Spanking Life site, including full text from her pamphlet.