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by Cactusgrl
Sat Mar 14, 2020 10:59 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Very new
Replies: 11
Views: 1979

Re: Very new

I would definitely talk through your feelings in a very respectful way. You should know the expectations and consequences. If you have too many rules, it can feel overwhelming! We learned quickly to really focus on my attitude and respect towards my husband. We let the more minor stuff fall away. We...
by Cactusgrl
Fri Feb 14, 2020 3:31 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Who started it? When? Why? How?
Replies: 7
Views: 1972

Re: Who started it? When? Why? How?

My husband and I had been married for 17 years. We have always had a very strong, happy marriage without too much drama. I've always wanted him to take more of a leadership role at home, but was never quite sure what that meant. And he didn't really know how to be more dominant either. I originally ...
by Cactusgrl
Sat Feb 08, 2020 10:13 am
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline blog: Should a submissive fear a spanking?
Replies: 10
Views: 4313

Re: Domestic Discipline blog: Should a submissive fear a spanking?

I pretty much ALWAYS fear getting spanked. My husband spanks thoroughly and hard. Knowing that I have one coming definitely puts the fear in me! That psychological fear combined with the actual painful spanking is what truly puts me back in my place as a submissive wife. What would be the point if I...
by Cactusgrl
Mon Jan 20, 2020 10:53 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Use of restraints
Replies: 17
Views: 6813

Re: Use of restraints

We did once. It was stressful, but I appreciated not getting into more trouble for moving. He hasn't put me in restraints for spanking since, I'm not sure why. I'm guessing that it will happen again at some point.
by Cactusgrl
Wed Jan 15, 2020 9:07 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Blog temporarily deactivated
Replies: 28
Views: 8674

Re: Blog temporarily deactivated

Beauty wrote:
Wed Jan 15, 2020 6:08 pm
Thank you Rand E and Miras for recovering the articles. We have found them very helpful ❤️❤️❤️
I couldn't agree more. Thank you!
by Cactusgrl
Thu Jan 02, 2020 10:03 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?
Replies: 27
Views: 9271

Re: Refusal To submit To A Spanking - Anyone?

I am unsure if I would have been spanked for that, but I know I would have been punished severely for refusing a spanking. However, we always talk through why I am being punished before the spanking begins. My HOH wants to hear my thoughts and opinions (respectfully...if I am sassy, it gets worse fo...
by Cactusgrl
Wed Dec 18, 2019 8:18 am
Forum: Public Domestic Discipline And Spanking Section
Topic: Spanking, clothing and humiliation
Replies: 39
Views: 21277

Re: Spanking, clothing and humiliation

I am always told to completely undress for punishment at our house. Unless we are in a hurry, then occasionally he will allow an exception by just baring my bottom.
by Cactusgrl
Sun Nov 03, 2019 2:11 am
Forum: Introduction
Topic: Hello everyone
Replies: 7
Views: 1340

Re: Hello everyone

Welcome!
by Cactusgrl
Fri Oct 18, 2019 9:54 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Topic sections in the forum
Replies: 14
Views: 3123

Re: Topic sections in the forum

I would love a section specifically for this.