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by oldfashionedwife
Sun Aug 15, 2021 1:43 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Reflections on DD as a way of life
Replies: 4
Views: 2059

Re: Reflections on DD as a way of life

I think there is an increased bond between spouses in this kind of relationship. The other wives I know are so busy being independent , so set against their husbands telling them anything that might resemble control that they end up living seperate lives even though they are living in the same house...
by oldfashionedwife
Sun Aug 15, 2021 1:21 pm
Forum: Politics
Topic: What are your political views?
Replies: 24
Views: 3246

Re: What are your political views?

I am a pro choice, Christian, leftie...My husband was also.
by oldfashionedwife
Wed Mar 10, 2021 6:52 pm
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Loss
Replies: 5
Views: 859

Re: Loss

That's the thing. I am letting the grief out but it's never ending. I can't even cope with day to day living. Our relationship was so intense and close that I feel like part of me left with him...
by oldfashionedwife
Wed Mar 10, 2021 12:26 am
Forum: Announcements and Domestic Discipline FAQ
Topic: Loss
Replies: 5
Views: 859

Loss

I don't know if this is the right place to post this. I haven't been here in quite a while. My husband has been very ill. He passed away on February 13th...I am beyond devastated and finding it hard to cope. If anyone here has experienced the same loss...How did you get thru it? I know it hasn't bee...
by oldfashionedwife
Thu May 21, 2020 11:11 am
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Telling family.
Replies: 33
Views: 17105

Re: Telling family.

You are really very lucky that you can both be so open to your parents and hers. Did they have questions?
by oldfashionedwife
Tue Apr 14, 2020 7:46 pm
Forum: Couple's challenges
Topic: Telling family.
Replies: 33
Views: 17105

Re: Telling family.

I'm pretty sure family members know especially since my husband will say something like "How about I put you over my knee right now?"...Although, for some reason, my mother thinks I am the dominant one in our marriage... One time when the neighbors were over he was telling them about something I did...
by oldfashionedwife
Thu Jan 16, 2020 7:37 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Thank you for giving me a place to belong
Replies: 38
Views: 10442

Re: Thank you for giving me a place to belong

I hope it all goes in your favor...Your ex deserves to pay thru the nose for all he has done to you and your children...My heart goes out to them. and You are so right about the opportunities kids with special needs have. It is a great thing for them.
by oldfashionedwife
Wed Jan 15, 2020 2:31 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Thank you for giving me a place to belong
Replies: 38
Views: 10442

Re: Thank you for giving me a place to belong

I am so sorry Sassy...It's one thing for adults to go thru the divorce but then for him to ignore the kids , the grandparent ignores the kids...That is just uncalled for. I think the reason your ex brought up the spanking is to humiliate you and so that you won't want to show up for the proceedings....
by oldfashionedwife
Tue Jan 14, 2020 8:02 pm
Forum: Off topic
Topic: Thank you for giving me a place to belong
Replies: 38
Views: 10442

Re: Thank you for giving me a place to belong

OMGosh He told his father and lawyer??!! Why ?? What did your lawyer say ?? I would be super angry with him for revealing such a personal thing...and your friend ? You would think she would be more accepting...I don't get it at all...
by oldfashionedwife
Tue Jan 14, 2020 3:58 pm
Forum: Blog posts
Topic: Domestic Discipline Blog: What does the wife think after a Spanking?
Replies: 13
Views: 8946

Re: Domestic Discipline Blog: What does the wife think after a Spanking?

I am stuck in the "Man does that hurt" mindset...My husband thinks spankings should be fast and hard...no lecturing, no warm up...Even though I know it's supposed to hurt, it's kind of a shock to my brain and I spend the whole time trying to escape it rather than accept it...I don't get to actually ...