Domestic Discipline Forum

You are really very lucky that you can both be so open to your parents and hers. Did they have questions?

I'm pretty sure family members know especially since my husband will say something like "How about I put you over my knee right now?"...Although, for some reason, my mother thinks I am the dominant one in our marriage... One time when the neighbors were over he was telling them about something I did...

I hope it all goes in your favor...Your ex deserves to pay thru the nose for all he has done to you and your children...My heart goes out to them. and You are so right about the opportunities kids with special needs have. It is a great thing for them.

I am so sorry Sassy...It's one thing for adults to go thru the divorce but then for him to ignore the kids , the grandparent ignores the kids...That is just uncalled for. I think the reason your ex brought up the spanking is to humiliate you and so that you won't want to show up for the proceedings....

OMGosh He told his father and lawyer??!! Why ?? What did your lawyer say ?? I would be super angry with him for revealing such a personal thing...and your friend ? You would think she would be more accepting...I don't get it at all...

I am stuck in the "Man does that hurt" mindset...My husband thinks spankings should be fast and hard...no lecturing, no warm up...Even though I know it's supposed to hurt, it's kind of a shock to my brain and I spend the whole time trying to escape it rather than accept it...I don't get to actually ...

Why does this have to be so complicated ? In some ways it's like being gay and trying to meet someone without everyone knowing that your gay...Do you know what I mean ? I was born this way, I've tried to deny it, I've kept it a secret, most people would not understand and I would most likely be put ...

Well...hubby apparently read what I wrote to NateG...and he let me have it...He was not happy that I used his health and his past inconsistency as reasons not to continue...In my defense...his health is a big issue for me. I don't want him feeling any stress or over doing it...I didn't think I was u...

Sorry I'm just seeing this NateG...My husband has been having some health issues for months so at this time we are no longer actively practicing the lifestyle. He mentions it from time to time but because his inconsistency is such an issue I'm just not sure. Some men are just not HOH material no mat...

Is there a members list ? I have gotten 2 private messages but I have never seen this person post or comment...I know there are lurkers...It just makes me uncomfortable